When Love and Hate Collides

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Minsan ang isang kanta, bigla mong naa-absorb ang meaning kapag nakakarelate ka?

Ako kadalasan kapag nagkakaron ng paboritong kanta, eventually nangyayari na sakin sa kakapaulit ko ng kinig dito. Bad thing lalo na kung di mashadong maganda ang meaning.

Victim of lyrics.

Kaya tuloy di na ko mashadong nagpapaapekto sa kanta. Dati rati, gawain ko mag score ng music sa mga taong brokenhearted para mas may dating habang naglalabas ang mga ito ng sama ng loob. Sa dami ng alam kong kanta, di pwedeng di ako agad makaisip ng bagay sa isang sitwasyon. Noon.

Ngayon, nagssoundtrip na lang ako pag pakiramdam ko, ang tagal ko nang di nagagalaw ung ipod ko. Pang relax na lang.

Teka, bakit nga ba yan ang title ng post na ‘to? Parang napunta na naman ako kung san-san. Sorry naman.

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Sabi nila, Love is a big word. Sakop nito ang buong pagkatao mo lalo na pag punumpuno ka nito. Pero alam mo bang it’s just as big as Hate. Pag feeling mo nawala na ito. Kahit feeling mo lang.

Pero alam mo rin ba na pag hate mo ang isang tao o bagay, it’s still a strong feeling. You still care and this hate-thing is your shield para di ka mahalata na mashado ka ng nasasaktan. You are trying to convince yourself na wala nang natitirang love jan sa puso mo. Parang mga alikabok na pinipilit mong isiksik sa ilalim ng upuan para lang maitago pero anjan pa rin. Sabay paniwala sa sarili na wala na ito.

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Don’t you just hate it?

That’s how Love overpowers you.

Diba ginawan pa ng song nina Rihanna at Ne-yo yan? Ang ganda punyeta. “Hate That I Love You.” You hate it so much, you’re banging everything near you sa sobrang pagka-relate. It sickens you too much that you wish hitting things harder would make it go away. But it won’t.

Love and Hate is such a bad combination. Especially when it collides.

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It’s when you’re on the verge of giving in and giving up. You just can’t decide. Ang daming naka-open na tabs on Wiki How to save you from making a bad decision. Or just go and take the fall. Tutal pareho lang masakit yun.

Sabi nga nung mga taong Alam Na Lahat.…”just make a decision.” Na para bang gutom lang ang issue na ito. “Hmm…what to order? Big Mac meal kaya or Quarter Pounder para busog agad.”

Or so they thought.

Pero naisip n’yo ba na nagpapaka-dramatic lang talaga kayo? So dramatic that you think of this issue as Life and Death when the truth is that, “May problema lang pala kayo and hating is the next easy way out and let it linger on.”

Nakakamiss ang mga issues na ito, ganun ba?

We tend to open more issues kasi ayaw natin harapin yung solution that’s right in front of us. “Go the fvck and face it.” As the memes say.

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You love. You hate. You hurt. You forgive. You learn. You move on. And be a better person.

If you love and hate a certain person or thing, it’s a good sign. This means that the impact they have in your life is somewhat so big you just can’t let it go. It still continues to grow in you. And you have to take care of it so that it won’t die. Don’t let it die.

As my dear good friend say, “Hate is not the opposite of Love. INDIFFERENCE is the opposite of Love.”

So as long you have this strong feeling towards this person, it means that you love them so much, you just don’t want to admit it because the hate is pushing you not to.

Wala namang schedule pag nag-collide yang dalawang malaking bato na ‘yan. It’ s up to you to choose which one is worth saving. Di totoo yung sinasabi nila na love shouldn’t be like hard work. Kung totoo yan, labor of love means nothing. Di naman kasi forever in love ang dalawang tao. It will worn out pag tagal and all you have for each other is respect and friendship and each other fighting your way out till the end. It’s a constant battle of two growing individual and we have to embrace each imperfections in every step of the way. That’s how love works. Hindi ito yung pinana lang kayo ni kupido feeling nio in love na kayo forever. Be realistic.

And by the way, hate? Use it for the bad things that’s trying to break you apart. Hate negative vibes. Hate unexpected hurdles. Holes. Setbacks. Twist and turns. Detours. Delays. Unthinkable. And all tomorrows that you two will not be together.

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And continue to LEARN. Be better. Be worth it.

6 thoughts on “When Love and Hate Collides

  1. Quoted pa talaga yung line sa nobela ko ha. 😊ayoko ng ganitong dilema. Minsan kasi pag nahaluan na ng hate, namamatay na yung love. Well, ang masasabi ko lang is…
    “I understand why fog goes down, simply it’s like a walk on the clouds astonishingly, yet somehow.” – Nobody’s Boss.

    Sorry, hindi ako makaget over sa mga quotes niya at ni Ms Melanie Marquez. Lolz 😜

  2. Add to that…hate or indifference covers up our pride…sometimes I truly think that our selfishness is the bottomline of it all because the true labor of life is giving oneself…selfless loving… imho lang po at nakikiadaan…🙂

  3. may nakilala ako na una ay magkaaway na mortal pero nauuwi sa pagmamahalan or at least isa sa kanila.

    hindi pa ako makalate sa pagbanggan ng dalawang force na ito pero naniniwala ako na love or anger ang maging motivation sa buhay.

    mabuhay!

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